Friday, July 30, 2004

We are a class after all...

It's been three weeks since school semester had started. My class still not seems to mix around very well as compare to my 1st year class during our 1st few weeks. Due to our different major, everyone in my 1st year class had separated. So, that means, each of us need to build up the class dynamic all over again in each of our different class.

Well, my current class, seems to have form exclusive, classmates always seems to stick with only one to two person they know during their 1st year. It seems like everyday when I go to class, I see more strangers than my classmates. People seems hard to break from their exclusive. The best example will be, there is one guy ask for a transfer to our class just because his girlfriend is in my class. Everyday sticking themselves together in their own world.

I find the it's easier for us to mix around during the 1st year than 2nd year. Maybe because of a human natural to have the sense of secure, sense of belonging. So, during the 1st year, no one knows anyone, everyone are eager to find his/her own area of security and belonging. It motivates everyone to want to know one another.

But as compare to my 2nd year now, most of us had already found our area of security and belonging. Well, human natural again, we prefer to stick within our own comfort zone than to expand our comfort zone or even step out of it. So, in my 2nd year now, most of us seems to feel that it's good enough to just stick with our own group of friends we know during our 1st year, not many are mixing around... But, no matter what, I will try my best to know everyone in my class, we are a class after all. 

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